Because we don't wanna assimilate to someone else's (boy) standards of what is or isn't.
As quoted in The Illustrated Encyclopedia of Music, Paul Du Noyer, ed. (2003).
While sexism hurts women most intimately, it also damages men severely.Kathleen Hanna
So many women have experienced horrific forms of male violence throughout their lives, and why isn't there a song about how you get depressed because of it? And you don't know what to do, and you don't know how to talk to your friends and how weird it is to be a feminist in that situation, where there's sort of the expectation that you're super-strong superwoman but you're just, like, eating pizza in your house avoiding talking about it.Kathleen Hanna