If you must go flopping yourself down, flop in favour of your husband and child, and not in opposition to'em.
No woman has to prove herself a woman in the grim way a man has to prove himself a man. He must perform, or the show does not go on. Social convention is irrelevant. A flop is a flop.
I'm a worthless check, a total wreck, a flop But if baby I'm the bottom, you're the top.
Yes, always keep the Classics at hand to prevent flop.
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