Nobody sees the same movie. I'm sure there are people who saw Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid and thought "Finally a gay movie about men who really care about each other. Thank God!" That's not what I saw necessarily but I don't think any two people see the same movie.
I'm all for guys being Butch and guys being men. I identify with that and appreciate that. But if I'm going to stab my gay brother in the back who isn't Butch and who maybe acts a little bit more effeminate, what good is that?
Butch (definition): Macho with a purse.